I'm not fully sure if its just me or not, if you put your ps4 in rest mode than turn it back on sometimes your friend list will say someone is on but they are not.

Coming back online I see a few friends hearting each other so I choose some friends who aren't getting hearted (because they're not actually on!) An I use my heart o phone on them an nothing happens

https://youtu.be/gk5nCiWiVSk hopefully this loads correctly so I can give a correct example. This has happened more times than I want but I keep shrugging it off but its starting to add up now.

I know I can just reset troves when I do get back online but this is still an issue that will hopefully get fixed.