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    IRL Help please relationship problems

    I Like a girl
    wayyyy outa my league
    But I like her anyway

    And I found out she has a boyfriend
    this morning

    How do I fix this depressing problem?





    And to anyone who asks why I'm posting on a game forums
    Idk and go away, this IS off topic section
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    You just need to accpet the things as they are, don't worry about anything, so your life will be easier, all you have now and will have forever is your family, everyone else will move out eventually, so....

    **** happens xD
    Even me had been on your case, but trying to win her is just being a bad guy ,right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Flowey View Post
    You just need to accpet the things as they are, don't worry about anything, so your life will be easier, all you have now and will have forever is your family, everyone else will move out eventually, so....

    **** happens xD
    Even me had been on your case, but trying to win her is just being a bad guy ,right?
    Just.... look foward™
    4 things

    1. did't you quit?

    2. I actually genuinely Hate my family
    I'd go in depth but no one would believe and other dumbness

    3. Yeah I would be the bad guy if i tried to go after her when she has a boyfriend now...
    And i really don't like to be the bad guy

    4. that was fast
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    There is a girl I love.
    However, I screwed up. It's a long story and I won't go into details.
    In the end, she just don't want to be with me.

    Fast forward some years, I was wondering if I can find a girl I'd care about like for her. One, that I will know I can spend my life with.
    The answer came recently: yes.
    It was a complete accident and complex combination of events that I met her.
    But yesterday I just discovered she has a boyfriend. Well...

    Anyways, this made me realize another thing. That I don't know any other person like them.
    And I don't know if such "accidental meeting" will ever happen again.
    Oh, and I'm 21 years old and I never had a girlfriend ¬_¬

    I could just live alone, there are many people like that.
    However, I know how it is to love someone. And that left a hole in my life I don't know how to fill.
    Whenever I think about it, it makes me feel empty. This makes me somewhat associated with Ulquiorra, so that's why he is on my avatar.

    Anyways, I have no idea why am I writing this.
    This doesn't answer how to fix your problem. At all.
    I myself don't know how to fix it.

    However, I live. So at least you can know that it's possible to survive it. Without any suicide attempts. Whatever it feels like.
    (I wish there was a contest for the most depressing post)

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3 spirits View Post
    4 things

    1. did't you quit?

    2. I actually genuinely Hate my family
    I'd go in depth but no one would believe and other dumbness

    3. Yeah I would be the bad guy if i tried to go after her when she has a boyfriend now...
    And i really don't like to be the bad guy

    4. that was fast
    1. Kinda, but i still wander on forums sometimes

    2. Even if they are bad with you, they gave you something that no one else could, your life

    3. That's the spirit

    4. Haha, just a coincidence
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    21 with no gf?
    well i'm 16 so that's kinda... hopeful

    but anyway
    y'all are telling me I shouldn't do anything?
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    I think making any advances on her would be disrespectful and rude. If you truly love her, you need to realize that she is happy: and you should be happy for her.

    That doesn't mean you can't be friends with her. Being in a relationship with someone isn't the end all be all, you can still be extremely happy in a friendship with them. See if you can hang out with her still. It's not the end of the world that she's not single dude.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScottishFockle View Post
    you can still be extremely happy in a friendship with them.
    This too. Although it's more difficult to be "just friends" if you are not in relationship yourself.

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    And I'm late to comment but I thought I add this:

    I've been in similar situations that I happen to like someone more than who they are but knowing there's something in the way, it does hurt but I try my best to avoid expressing my feelings on how I feel about that person. Sometimes there's things that you really have to keep to yourself but you really want to tell that person how you feel. I made a mistake of telling my friend I like her (I'm bi) but it led to conflict because she's straight as a board and I have that feeling inside that I want to be with her. Since it added conflict to the friendship, I pretty much lost her a few times and then I decided one time to delete her off from my Facebook, phone contacts, and skype without saying much. In your situation, it seems best that you don't tell a girl you like her when she's dating someone else or that would really end up damaging her relationship with her boyfriend. It's more worst when you and her are like best friends.

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    the best advise i could give ya... if she is out of ur league , first try to beat her league... go and talk to her u might get suprised with how good u doing , and most important advise ever! get on her league! try to improve urself so u get on a higher league, not only u will hit girls easily but u will also feel more confident and better with yourself

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